Olivia Marie Batty

Thankyou to everyone who lights olivia a candle i am realy struggling to come to terms with what has
happend and i havnt been round much to light candles my thoughts are always with all our angels god
bless you all Kerry



Love You Love You Love You Love You Love You Love

Love You Love You Love You Love You Love You Love
Love You Love You Love You Love You Love You Love





︽♥︽ ANGEL ︽♥︽ THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS ︽♥︽ MISSING YOU MORE EACH DAY ︽♥︽
FOREVER WE WILL LOVE YOU ︽♥︽ AND IN OUR HEARTS YOU'LL STAY ︽♥︽





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Well were do I start I can’t find the words to explain how I feel of the loss of my beautiful
healthy 5lb 14oz little angel Olivia Marie batty. It started when I was just 20weeks pregnant and I
was told I had a low lying placenta was covering the whole of my cervix and I was told that there
was a really small chance that it would move and if there was any bleeding at any time I was to call
999 straight away and get into hospital because not only my daughters life was at risk mine was as
well, they also said that if it had not moved at the 1st scan they was going to ask me to go back
for they would keep me in until the end of my pregnancy to make sure we was both ok, so they booked
me in for 2 further scans 1 at 32weeks and another at 36weeks. My community midwife came to my home
to see me and she said the same as the hospital that she would be really surprised if I did not
bleed before my 36week scan. I went through 12weeks of panic that I didn’t want to even go out of
my own home incase anything happened to us.
I went back at 32 weeks and they then told me that I was fine and the placenta ad moved 8cms away
and therefore there was no need for the 36week scan even though the news made me happy I was
confused because they said more than likely it wouldn’t move but it had. I was just 37weeks
pregnant a week before I had Olivia and I was really worried due to swelling from head to toe and
generally not feeling well and bad back pain and when I went to my local drop in midwife centre my
blood pressure was higher than normal and I had traces of protein in my urine.
The next morning I woke up feeling that I had wet the bed then I looked down and I was in a big
puddle a blood I stood up and ran to the bath room with blood rushing down my legs I rang my mum
straight away and she and my dad was with me within 5mins of me phoning her my partner was running
round trying to get me some clean clothes due to what I had on dripping in blood. The ambulance came
within 10-15mins and the staff saw the blood all over the towels I was sat on and the towels I
cleaned myself up with they didn’t see all the blood I had lost upstairs and down the toilet but
what they had seen was enough. I got to the hospital and was put in a room until a bed came free for
me they tested my baby’s heart beat for at least 10mins then took it off, they then took me up to
the ward a few hours later and said I would have to stay in. they checked my baby’s heartbeat a
couple of times but I had to ask for them to check her most of the time. The next morning I was
still bleeding quite heavily and as the day proceeded and my mum dad and partner had been with me al
day and left the bleeding had slowed down but I still had to stay in. I told them I wanted to have
my daughters heartbeat checked again so that I knew she was ok and that I could hear her heartbeat
so they put the heart monitor on until I was ready to go to sleep, when thy came back I asked them
the same question me my partner and my mum had asked them from day 1 of me going in can’t you just
get her out while I know she’s ok they said no she’s better off where she is. I then said well
wouldn’t she be safer coming out because of the massive bleed iv had they also said she was safer
inside me but I knew they was wrong they just wouldn’t get her out for me even though I asked them
to over and over again. The next morning I had to wait to see a doctor to see what was going to
happen to me next they said well we was going to send you for an internal scan but because the
bleeding had stopped coming outwards they did not see the need in an internal so they just sent me
for an abdominal scan which they said she was fine and growing well and that she was about 6lb I
still asked if they would please start me off or get her out while she was ok because I knew
something was still seriously wrong but they said I was fine and sent me home.
The day after I was sent home Olivia was not moving around like she would normally and I was in
really bad pain and I didn’t know what was wrong because I was told everything was fine. It got to
around tea time and the pain was getting worse I couldn’t eat I couldn’t do anything I
couldn’t even feel a little movement or anything, so I went in the bath to see if that helped
because she always moved around when I got in the bath but I was sat in the bath over an hour and
still nothing so I got out and got dressed and tried to watch some T.V but I was in so much pain me
and my partner took a DVD to bed he feel asleep and I couldn’t sleep so I walked around the house
and the pain seemed to be getting worse then I stood in Olivia’s bedroom and sat by her cot
praying that she was ok I then couldn’t sit any longer because the pain just wouldn’t go so I
ran another bath. When the bath had done I got straight into it but the pain still wouldn’t go so
I ran to the bedroom got my phone rang my mum to come to my house but had to wake my partner as well
to ring an ambulance I was throwing up and was in really bad pain, my came with my dad and within
15mins the ambulance was here. when I got to the hospital they took me to a room and tried to listen
for the baby’s heartbeat but couldn’t find it they tried for 5mins but at this point I was upset
because I knew that because they didn’t want to get her out when I asked I knew that my angel had
gone they then took me into another room and checked to see if they could see her heartbeat through
a scan , I was fed up off been messed about and just wanted my daughter out because it was there
fault that they didn’t want to check me properly to see were the bleed had come from by doing the
internal scan I was supposed to have. I had Olivia Marie batty on the 5th of March 2009 at 00.01am I
was so out of it on al the drugs they had given me I dint get to see my daughter until she was
10hours old and she was beautiful. I had to have a blood transfusion because my blood pressure was
really low after I had Olivia I also lost a massive clot bigger than my placenta What they failed to
do is check were I was bleeding from when I first went in they said they thought it could be the
placentre moving again even though at my 32week scan they told me it would stay where it was and
this mistake has killed my daughter because my placenta ad moved again and tore so when I had
stopped bleeding outwards I was bleeding inwards.

The treatment I got after I had Olivia was horrible the midwife that had looked after me al day had
to go and see to another women and within 5mins of her leaving me with my mum and partner 2 midwifes
that I had never seen before came in my room and said we had to move I was trying to have a wee
while the midwifes watched over me rushing me out I found it hard as it was with out being rushed
out I could hardly walk and they didn’t offer me a chair they then picked my daughter up in the
mosses basket she was in and put it on top of a hospital cot so my daughter was on a slant this
really upset me. My partner has cerebral palsy so he was unable to carry her, so the midwife rapped
her up in towels like a piece of laundry so other mothers didn’t get distressed this was my
beautiful perfect baby they was talking about. The room they moved me too was another delivery room
waiting for the birth of another baby with nappies cots heart monitors I was distraught. The
treatment like this went on. Anyway the moral of my story is my beautiful baby should be here and if
it wasn’t for the hospitals incompetence she would be.

We will never forget our darling daughter Olivia and take each day at time.

This is olivias special poem the midwife sue read out at her funeral

Snowflake


Christmas Eve they sometimes fall
Snowflakes so soft and pure
Melting away to fall again
Another day, we don’t know when

Just like our darling Olivia
Soft and Pure
Our Little Angel

We know we will meet again
We don’t know Where
We don’t know when
But until we do, our little love
We’ll send our love to you above
Up to the clouds way up high
Our love to you will never die

So when the snowflakes fall again
From the clouds above
We’ll think of you,
Our little girl
Our pure white little dove
Our pure Snowflake Olivia